Men dare not tell a woman's top-secret?

Generally written in a woman's secret diary, the locked drawer, or even attached to the ears close friend whispered inside ... ... so the men do? General in his heart. Women often need to share the secret, while the men's secret is reticent about only by their own thin chew. If you are a woman love him, first of all must know that he has a secret which can not touch the "private property", it may be his unspoken difficulties.



Secret 1: His emotional record

Case: JACKY, 32-year-old company's project manager

Before they get married, I had a girlfriend, because she has raised a variety of reasons parted. I was very painful for some time, until his wife fell in love and now married. I had never put his past experience told his wife that the relationship, but she did not know what is heard, always pestering I asked this, I sometimes inadvertently neglect to her point, she asked me with jealousy wronged : Are you the past, how she? Not as cool to me that, right? Gaode I know what to do. I really wanted to tell her to stop right after so interested in my past, but was worried she was misunderstood and deeper, I really do not know how to open.



Man's idea: almost every man has been colorful love life, but in a man's heart, "In the past a woman" and "Today's Woman" is a two planet's people, men do not want this all to tell a woman But they were not ashamed of this man, but men think that further cultivation of the women are jealous love, if a man from exposing their "ugly" In the future there will be good days before? So all of the men, has become an extremely repressed secret.



Woman's response: Let him become a long-buried past emotional experience better. In mind his secret is set to "minefield", constantly remind myself not to involve even heard of few words, do not inquisitive, stubborn, and stingy in addition to your memories and even they begin to arouse him that "she" all kinds of benefits, What good will it? Smart woman does not know how to dig a trap since.



Keywords:

1. Disappointment in love: because it is losing face, so silent.

2. Internet Love: Men do not recognize such behavior is not honest.

3. Yan Yu: There are stealing the feeling that men are wonderful, and think the best way to enjoy it as a secret to guarding.

4. Admiration: For married men, it is even more tight-lipped about his secret.



Secret 2: The so-called "man's own thing"

Case: Liu, 30-year-old media

After work, leisure time, I often meet with a group of friends, everyone Kan Kanda Shan, drink wine, find it very pleasant. But the wife is always worried, sometimes a few phone calls at night to lay the chase: where are you? And what people together? What are you doing? Confused people take great pains. There are things in my work, and she always asked. Know that she did so because of concern, but I really do not want her to interfere too much of these my own thing.

The idea of men: Women workers in the details, likes to communicate, love to ask questions, or even into a dead end. Men will often feel that it is more a man's own affair, a woman is no need to make a fuss to go to anything, because men do things to men.

Woman's response: her husband when the wife needs you, do not try when his work and life planners. Everyone has to have a living space of their own psychological needs of men is no exception, so a woman wise choice is: You Taqu crazy, what Hupenggouyou, working conditions, ... ... his piece of "private plots", which he cultivated to the !

Keywords:

1. Working conditions: Some things to the secret of the job is to not want to do during the day into the night. So, men do not like to interfere with a woman.

2. Entertainment: Men like to play with same-sex friends do not like a woman involved.

3. Dream of getting rich: desire flourishes almost every man's dream, but also carrying his wife to do, hoping one day to give a woman loved a big surprise.



Secret three: sex on the anxiety

Case: ANSON, 40-year-old company employee

My wife is relatively harmonious sex, but I always worry and anxiety, could not help ... ... but I also do not want these anxieties and let his wife know that she was more reluctant to take the initiative to mention.

A man's idea: Sex is a big man's life is very care about, is composed of men, an important cornerstone of self-esteem and self-confidence. Men more or less of their own sexuality have had anxiety. But this is a big secret, is to not allow a woman to know.

Woman's response: Men "sex" caused by vigorous behind, in fact, there have been a struggle. Therefore, from the wife's admiration and trust is the best men of "Viagra", no matter what reasons he is the status of the "slippery slope" as a wife should be calm and collected on the surface, but can not be complaining