Psychology: the desire of men and women What is the difference?

Both in mind and in body, the desire of men and women in different ways to spend their bloom. Please read on to learn how the mysterious desire to start the machine.

　　Men want to conquer, and women want to be loved

"When women think of their own, rather than selected by men and another woman, her desire will be started. Men are more willing to do that to choose a person, and will try to make itself in the center", sexologist, Christopher gynecologist explained Marcos.




Latest studies have shown that stimulate or inhibit a woman sexual factor is the emotional intimacy and interpersonal problems; while in men who work, then the direct physical and sexual factors. Christopher Marcos summary said: "Men need sex to get a good feeling, a woman must feel good to have sex."

　　Man "partial", the woman "integrity" to give their

Men can have sex as long as an erection. But for physiological reasons, the woman initiated sexual men far less mechanical and explicit. Proficient in gynecology, male subjects, and psychosomatic medicine, Sylvain Mimon explained: "What women can not be separated from the body and mind to."

Women used to dedicate themselves, and she must also be from the physical, mentally ready for it. Psychiatrist, sexologist Na Dige Raphael that "although some external factors such as anxiety, fatigue may also have a man's sexual function is some impact," but when the men in love always troubles aside, and the good Pillow reconciliation trick. A woman to do these things much more difficult.

　　Men always want to see ... ...

Women are very clear, in order to attract a man's vision, elicits their desires, as long as wearing a chest piece with low collar blouse, ultra-short skirt, or curve absolutely shattered enough.

As the Na Dige Raphael pointed out, "Men's arousal first through visual completion: I saw, and I want to ... ...." That is why the men were keen to pornographic films. The only difference between them is that each person's visual "target" different, some people like to see the breast, some people like a woman's underwear, or the taper of the heel ... ...

"But let a man feel stimulated, rather than a companion, who best atmosphere million species of objects, or parts of the body, but rather that in mind," she derive pleasure, "the whole idea. Men like the thought," Sylvain * Mimon stressed. Intuitive visual pleasure of the companions is to stimulate the desire of men, one of the main driving force. Therefore, experts also believe that "a woman pleasure is not shown, will be considered less attractive."

　　The ladies would like to hear

The body of a woman for men will also be very sensitive. However, as the body lines, the male exudes the body of other things, such as capacity, instrumentation, power, more aroused a woman's desire. "A woman's arousal first through hearing, followed by tactile, and finally the visual," Na Dige Raphael explained.

Therefore, the eloquent man who easily won the women favor ... ... "because the man's words and caresses so that a woman is convinced that he wanted his own, rather than other women, nor is sex." A woman must first feel that they have been desire, only to desire each other, and "whoever is the same woman for him," the idea, most allow a woman disheartened.

　　Men living in space, a woman living in the time

"Men talk about the latest Yan Yu, the total can be like talking about the movie as I remember all the details," Sylvain Mimon pointed out that "while women only think of that time enjoyable, gentle feeling." He believes that sex for men in terms of more "space" of a man concerned about is sex itself, is a desire to meet. The female sex is more "timing" because the woman's sexual desire can not be quantified, the boundaries blurred, the need for sufficient time to develop. Sylvain Mimon concluded that: "For women in terms of the most important thing is not sex per se, but she was in what kind of atmosphere, how much time to slowly ignited his desire."

　　Differences in hormone

Men's sexuality from the body there is always a lot of testosterone. A woman's sexual desire, along with the physiological cycle. Sylvain Mimon explained that "When a woman ovulation strong sexual desire" in this stage, the secretion of estrogen increase the women's physical and genital sensitivity. Such physiological differences make women's sexual desire compared to men, more unstable and fragile.

Men, testosterone levels in vivo is very stable, a woman's hormone level was with the monthly menstrual cycles change.

　　The brain is the most important sex organ

From the standpoint of biology, sexual stimulation is an extremely complex process, seemingly chaotic, thanks to a clever brain to direct. When carrying his cup when each Songqiu Bo Hou, the brain through the nerves with a large amount of content-rich signals, and some entered the autonomic nervous system (the system of command in some muscle groups, such as digestion and muscle), caused physical changes, such as skin redness, rapid heart beat ... ... the same time, inhibition of some other behavior.

In order for sexual excitation process continues, the body must maintain a certain degree of relaxed, so that carry blood to the reproductive system. The same time, the brain also controls the secretion of different hormones. Such as the famous testosterone, sexual desire "booster", although this is a male hormone, but women also have a body, only a smaller amount of secretion. Secretion of estrogen to female genitalia to become more sensitive to progesterone, then played the role of physical relaxation