Why a woman never forgot to mention an old lover?

Whenever the feelings of a woman in real life encounter did not go well, she will miss the old lover.

Compared to men, the women also love nostalgia, each lover is like a familiar song, people go, tea cold, memories still linger Sansei. A woman's eyes, every once had the men are so different in different men, where he also became a different woman, has had several romance of living on the equivalent of several times, a woman's heart is This getting old.



Women are usually emotional. A man who loved her in her image will not change, he would not grow old, will not change of heart. So whenever a woman's emotional life in the real encounter did not go well, she will miss the old lover.



Why a woman would like to see an old lover?

Japan's private detective agency to provide a service that is "In Search of first love", the customer 90 percent are female. Woman can be seen the old lover's concerned about far more than men. Why would a woman concerned about an old lover? Why are willing to give them a call?



One of the reasons: The chance thought of him, while his telephone numbers are also easily to find.

29-year-old Lin An official duties back to the home of the town, passing the door of his alma mater, school, those familiar with the scenery andOdorThat she suddenly recalled her high school time, and love her boyfriend. Old pure romance stirred her with deep feeling, out of nostalgia for a better past, and would like to know the former lovers do not come to be intact, curiosity, and she had obtained from the mother, the boy's phone number, then dial his calls. They dined together memories of those wonderful memories.



Benefits: self-satisfied curiosity and vanity, because he still remember those many years ago.

Disadvantages: This reunion once is enough, do not abuse. Otherwise, even the good memories will also be difficult to keep. In fact, everyone was all know: In the past all will never come back.



The second reason: because he once said, if you wish, you can always call his cell phone number.

36-year-old Xiao-wei recalls: I and he broke up that I put forward, and he was very sad. The last time we met, he burst into tears, a large man Kucheng In this way, it hurts. He said I was pain in his heart forever. But he understood my determination, because he did not give me what I look forward to happiness. He said that as long as I like, you can call his cell phone number, anywhere, anytime. Every Christmas since then, I will give him a call, I have been guilty had been hurt, a true love of my heart.



Advantages: In the men's tears, the woman's vanity be met. Comforting a wounded heart is that all women are willing to do.

Disadvantages: a man than we thought to be more forgetful, and vengeful. When he recovered from heart pain, you, in his mind the image and status also completely changed. When you're full of apologetic and caring with the tone to call him, he might mind the muttering: this woman enough a lot of trouble, always do not know the correct position of one's own position.



The third reason: the old woman to a lover called to invite him to attend her birthday party.

Excuse. Women want to re-see an old lover, but a separate interview makes her feel embarrassed, I do not know the other side is not willing to accept such appointments, so she is willing to meet with a number of important anniversaries excuse, so that together with old friends and everyone there. 32-year-old Mary birthday invitation to attend the old lover. Be used in her group of friends and family, his appearance it is very sudden, he did not know whom to accost his own one man standing in the corner. A very awkward reunion.



Benefits: to satisfy a woman's vanity. He is still willing to accept our invitation.

Disadvantages: It is clear that he began to regret to attend this party has. Next time you invite him may not be so receptive to the.



The fourth reason: breaking up are helpless.

Why is obviously in love, in the end still have to separate? This love is everlasting pain in the hearts of women, she found that he is the world's most suited to her. Now the objective environment has changed, is not re-start?



27-year-old Charlene recalls: and with him the day of my life the happiest time in him, I have never come across another man can make me so happy. I call him, but he never answered.



Benefits: a woman can do that, he refused to answer our phone because he still feels sorry for the loss of love, his courage to face us, once again lose our. This would like to meet a woman's vanity.



Disadvantages: Life is cruel. Our aspirations have often not be achieved. We hope that he was heartless refusal to meet the request.



5 reason why: a woman willing to give an old lover to call, because I felt he was the only person who can talk to distressed.

22-year-old Effie, said: Every time I feel depressed, I would give my ex-boyfriend called to him to talk to my troubles. He was more than a friend, in my mind, he was forever lover.



Benefits: self-satisfied vanity. The man still have the patience to listen to us whether he still love me?

Disadvantages: This talk is best not to become a habit. Want to know he should have a new love life, if he always received a middle of the night to talk to your phone, his current girlfriend think? Realistic, not to the total immersed in the fantasy inside.

We are already passed him.



Reasons 6: Women called to the old lover, since there was still love him.

The prize, said 36-year-old: he left me, and I was very sad. A year later, I still can not forget him, so I call him. He came and spent a night with me, but I found that everything had irrevocably changed, and I can not reuse the same mentality to face him, because his departure brought me too much harm, I can not forget it all. The reunion is our last meet us.



Advantages: good, this time he left when the woman did not cry. We can love completely from the shadow of this failure in the relief out.

Disadvantages: a woman once again realized that a man, without our permission, you can also change his love for us, and his betrayal will not be any punishment. Life is cruel.



Seven reasons: sometimes needs a little time back. Women will always need to prove that love can be eternal.

35-year-old read out married 10 years, the regular appointments with her former lover: "I can call him at any time, he will try to come look at me, with us memories of times past."



Benefits: to satisfy a woman's vanity. At any time, to create their own environment, not a loving woman's sin.

Disadvantages: Basically, do no harm. However, if the let her husband know how he would look at you?



Eight Reasons: Single life is sometimes unbearable.

31-year-old Li Sha said: "leave him then, I've been celibate life. One night, I had a very lonely, so I about to join him for supper. Can he appeared at the restaurant door the moment, I once again understand why We can not together, I do not love him. "



Benefits: a woman to understand, in the absence of love, when the single life is the most appropriate to.



Disadvantages: alone to spend the night in some lonely tough.

In fact, the old lover to get along with the greatest difficulty is how to understand the feelings between the two have failed, how to properly treat the relationship between the two now. Is the love? Or friendship? Too rigidly adhere to the past, from the psychological, or even destroy the essence of life now. Most men are not convinced that there will be friendship between the sexes exist, and they came to see you or do not go out for love, or curiosity, or will not refuse your kindness. Knowing this, after a woman, perhaps in the time allocated to this phone a little more cautious.



Remember the reason why good, because it has in the past, no longer able to harm us. So that they become now, they once again become a sword.

Valentine met with the old woman would often note that, now overtaken by events, and people become more mature. And the old lovers meet again, we will know how to grasp the sense of proportion. The actual situation may be incomplete is the case. What kind of approach and mentality of people faced with old friends is the most appropriate?



Time and space, the men you have to stop me go. As I recall the woman caught in the memory of the jewelry box opens. A lot of thought had been forgotten the plot surfaced, mood seems to be back in an instant memory of a scene. At this point the memory becomes filters, all the unpleasant details have been diluted, highlights are a beautiful couple that they could be made into a greeting card pictures a scene. At this point the woman could not help but to go rummaging when the woman's phone book ... ... a phone call over, how would he react? Is to find an excuse for finding a way out? Or embrace? Under normal circumstances, men would not refuse a woman's invitation. Especially the two people breaking up soon, men also want to restore the relationship between the two men when a woman let him do what he is willing to do so. Woman dating sites began to anxious to wait, it immediately that this man had been very familiar with her, he has been in her head has been separated from her life. From another side, he is totally a stranger. In the face before him and face him, the best to do the following:



Wait until the relationship between the two sides meet again when you are no longer ambiguous.

Clear they want to get anything from this meeting.

Do not think he has hurt our place.

With him, do not be too gentle gestures and movements.

Do not ask too much of his current girlfriend, details.

Do not wear tooSexy。

Do not drink too much, otherwise they will say or do anything against the wishes otherwise.

Try to beat him on the phone, do not hit his home phone, or if it is another woman answered, listening to the side and said the party will feel discomfort